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Top Ten Tips for Sustaining Relationship

Do you want to know how to keep the romance in your marriage alive? Then, read on the top ten tips given below for sustaining your relationship…

· One of the 10 best ideas for sustaining relationships is to talk, talk and talk. Never let a communication gap crop up between the two of you.

Never end the day without talking about your little misunderstanding, you have to make sure that you end not having any feeling of anger with one another.

· Giving small little things as gifts to your partner is definitely going to make your partner glow throughout the day. It’s the thought that counts and make your partner feels so happy that you remember her even if there’s no special occasion.

· Join some hobby classes like dancing. It will ensure that you two spend time together as well as bring you two closer to each other.

You have to show interest in things that your partner loves to do, if She loves to dance, she better dance with you than her dancing with the dance instructor.

· Never ever fail to express your feelings. Tell your partner how much you love him/her as often as possible. Sometimes the phrase I Love You has been misused and abused, but if it comes from the heart, it doesn’t hurt to tell your partner that you love her. So don’t be shy to say the words I Love You.

· Small little gestures like sending a romantic sms or e-mail will go a long way in making you love last throughout your marriage. Yes, and if you are away, out of town, don’t forget that you can send her text message on your cellphone as well. Take the initiative to show her that you love her even by just leaving her little love notes even just by the kitchen counter or by your bedside table.

· Remember all the important dates of your relationship like birthdays, anniversary, etc. Reserve those days especially for your partner and celebrate them together. I remember one time at work, there was a special delivery of roses to my manager delivered by a quartet who sang a very special song for that special day and it was arranged by her husband. It makes your partner feel so important in your life by doing something like this.

· Always trust your partner. Suspicion is one of the major reasons behind failed relationships. Never believe in what other people say. You have to go to the source, it’s better to be the first to know if something is going wrong. But you should not rely on other people, you have to communicate and get the answer straight from the horse’s mouth.

· Take a break from the mundane life and go for outings once in a while. You have to spend quality time together and the best way to do that is to go away on a holiday, doesn’t have to be out of the country but anywhere where you will enjoy each other’s company.

· Flirting is a nice way to relive the old moments as well as to bring back the zing in your relationship. Stay young at heart and make sure that you use laughter as the best medicine in your relationship.

· Last but not the least, spend quality time with each other. Even if you get a few moments alone, make the most of them. And make each day a special day for you and your loved ones, you can never bring back the time so do the things you can together before it’s too late.

HAPPY VALENTINE’S TO ALL!

Source: www.everythingvalentinesday.com

Top Ten Tips for Sustaining Relationship

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